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Date ideas by cost: free, under $20 and under $50

The best dates are about the company, not the bill. These ideas work for first dates, tenth dates and nights out with friends. Many are easier to talk on than a loud, expensive dinner.

Free

Good for first dates and easy conversation.

  • A walk somewhere scenic: a waterfront, a garden or a historic street
  • A free museum day or gallery opening
  • A free outdoor concert or movie in the park
  • Watch the sunset from a good spot
  • A board game night at home
  • Browse a farmers market or bookstore together
  • A hike on a local trail
  • Volunteer together for a morning

Under $20

Low cost, still a little special.

  • Coffee and a pastry somewhere cozy
  • A picnic with food from the grocery store
  • Cook a new recipe together
  • Trivia night at a local spot
  • Ice cream and a walk
  • A matinee or discount movie night
  • Mini golf or a batting cage
  • A thrift store challenge: find each other a gift for $5

Under $50

For a celebration, without the big bill.

  • Lunch instead of dinner at a favorite restaurant
  • A beginner class together, like pottery or dance
  • Tickets to a local theater or comedy show
  • Bowling or a climbing gym day pass
  • A day trip with a packed lunch
  • A cooking class at a community center
  • Kayak or bike rental for an afternoon
  • A local sports game in the cheap seats

General ideas. For first dates with someone you met online, meet in a public place, tell a friend where you'll be, and never send money to someone you haven't met.

Keep dating affordable